Phone sex involves a lot of creativity to make it pleasurable. When I first got into the phone sex industry, I was more conscious about adding some theatrical elements to my script to keep up with the rates and pricing. I had to fake orgasms and sexual pleasure while making sure that I sound convincing enough. I also read scripts and try to act them out as I modulate my voice in between sighs and moans.
As I got more comfortable with what I was doing, it became a routine. Listening to different men masturbating, talking dirty, cursing and achieving orgasms became so natural to me. After all, it was my job to guide them successfully towards the finish line.
Sometimes, I would come across callers that really turn me on and I try to play along when I’m in the mood for it. So I also invested on some sex toys and sex aides for myself. To become better at what I do and to generate more repeat clients, I practiced the art of dirty talking to tease my partner right.
I also started to incorporate some role-playing elements for callers who don’t know exactly how or where to start. Here are some examples;
Phone Sex Teasing Examples
- “You sound so sexy that I’m dying to suck your dick right now.”
- “I’m all wet and horny that I imagine you slowly entering my tight pussy.”
- “You sound like someone that I can fuck all night.”
- “I want you to lick my cunt until I cum.”
- “My cheeks are flushing when I hear you speak. My nipples get hard and heat is radiating all over my thighs.”
- “I feel so wet. Please make me cum.”
- “I’m touching my breasts and going down my belly. I’m slipping my hand into my underwear.”
- “I can almost feel your muscles getting tense as I tease and lick your body.”
- “You sound so sexy and you feel so good.”
- “I want you to suck my clit real good. I want it now.”
- “I love it when I hear you moan. It’s making me wet.”
How to Roleplay
It is important to avoid dead air and dead silences while having phone sex. Remember that your goal is to keep up the heat and to enable your partner to reach full arousal.
Therefore, consistency is very important as well as continuous stimulation. But since you can only do so much with phone sex, it is important to fill the gaps with anything that’s pleasurable to hear.
Here’s what you must learn;
Moan
If you can’t find any dirty words to say, respond by moaning gently. Remember that moaning is a sexy way to communicate how good you’re feeling.
Sigh and Breathe
Deep sighs and heavy breathing can help express pleasure. It’s something that your partner would love to hear from you.
Short Responses
Short statements like “mmm… that feels so good”, “I need you so bad” or “you make me feel good” can fill the dead air with something sexier.
Gentle Groans
Groaning gently helps communicate sexual pleasure and serves as a quick response for something that your phone sex partner has just said.
Beg to Cum
To express sexual arousal and to further turn your partner on, beg to cum during phone sex. You can say “please don’t stop”, “please make me cum”, “oh please, I’m coming” or “I want it now, baby”.
The Takeaway
If you think that phone sex is difficult and dirty, you’re having the wrong impression. It’s actually challenging, fun and liberating. The element of mystery makes it very exciting because you can play with your imagination. It’s also an opportunity to understand and view sex from a different perspective as you become aware about the different things that turn people on.
Best of all, you can play different roles and be virtually anywhere your imagination takes you. And the same goes with your phone sex partner. Through phone sex, you can become a more passionate, sensual and intense lover who really knows how to talk dirty and satisfy in bed.
